Parents might be getting divorced...

[feza]

Well i thought that i would post here since i need to get this of my mind

As bloodyaftertaste said from a day or two ago i am sheltered to much... But today a glimpse of reality showed it's ugly face. My dad confirmed to me what I've been expecting and noticing for the last few weeks, my mom might bee leaving us soon. She has been very stressed lately coming home later than normal and kind of depressed. Seemingly it's not because of my dad, who is working hard to hold their relationship together.

I went skating in a few hours for the first time in almost two years to clear my mind.
I've decided that first of all i will try to help more out with the cleaning in the house. I know if my mom is going to leave us she will be moving out of town since her work isn't here and we would have to move, because my dads income isn't enough to keep the house.

Well i know that a wouldn't be able to choose between my parents, so I'm considering moving. I know that it would be stupid to move before i know more about how things might develop. Anyway I'm going to speak with my student adviser when my holidays is over to hear about the possibility of moving to some of the flats, i think its called, which is connected to the school.

Well... I don't really know what to do as the things is now. But as said in the start i just needed to get this of my mind and sharing it with someone

[melody angel]

my parents are not together, thank goodness i hate my dad.

[bloodyaftertaste]

I'm really sorry to hear that and I hope things work out for the best.

I'm just scratching my head to try to figure out when I said you were too sheltered... I hope that didn't offend you.

[shymel94]

My parents have been divorced since I was three, so I can empathize. Just make sure your parents know you love them.

[yuki-chan]

My parents get divorced when I have 2, Its was a shock, Now I live whith my Mother and I hate her

[melody angel]

i kinda hate both of my parents

[shymel94]

Well, while I don't particularly care for my father or step-mother, I love my mom and step-dad. I hope you three can be happy though.

[feza]

bloody no you did not offend me
I said something about living in my own fantasy world, with, games, school and friends XD

I really love both my mom and dad, and they know it they are both two very awsome people and that is also why i know i would not be able to choose to live with one of em over the other, and that is why I'm considering moving...
My little brother is having his confirmation 2 weeks from now, and if things keep to be they way they are now, my mom might be leaving a shot while after that. If thats happens I'm move myself.

[sanzo]

Well at least both of your parents are still alive. My mom passed away about four years ago, and I don't think my dad will ever remarry.

[lopez]

I'm sorry to hear that fez, my heart goes out to you

Just know that you didn't cause this to happen, it's just that stress and anxiety tend to cloud people's judgement. I'd say do whatever you can to help your parents, no matter how small or big it is.

What I mean is help around the house, clean, cook, get a job or help pay for house expenses, let them know you love them by saying it or hugging them, basically do whatever you can to show them that you care about them and that you will do anything to help them stay together.

My parents were thinking about it when I was in high school....I was heart broken, I didn't want them to leave each other and especially when my brother was so young and needed his parents for love and moral support. So what I did was step up to the plate and encourage them to stay together, not just for my brother but because I knew they still loved each other and just weren't thinking....I cooked all the meals, I took care of the yard work, house repairs, bills, etc....just so that they could spend time with each other, to rekindle the love they had lost and X amount of years later they're happy and healthy growing old together

I know you don't want to choice between who to live with, but don't just leave both of them in the dust, that would probably hurt them more than you know. If you absolutely have to move, then make sure you stay in constant contact with them, it'll mean the world to them

Again, do what you can to help your parents, especially your mom since she seems really stressed out. I'll keep you and your parents in my prayers. Let me know if you need any advice or motivation
Also know that we're your friends here, so you can vent to us about your problems

[gojyo]

Just make sure you keep up with both of them. Like calling and e-mailing if they have one. That's what I do with my parents. Though my parents are in a different state.

My mom and dad divorced when I was 12 then my mom remarried when I was 16. Though my mom and step dad lived together for a few years before they married.

[feza]

Thanks lopez, yes you said many of the things i was searched for. Help em' out and really do something and don't leave if isn't necessary.
Thanks everyone